Eagles Point

I cannot tell you how much I have considered the depths of marital commitment and investment in deep deliberation with God over the years. I came across the following and copied it for the most part. It's so good, I have to get it out here in some way. I cannot find the source anywhere, but I want to affirm that the way this is brought out is not original to me. I will be glad to update this post once/if I figure it out. Until then, let us be bold in our addressing the difference between a husband and a male spouse. This is meant to be a wake-up call to those of us who are not meeting the standard, and a sharpening instrument to those of us who are. Most Men Are Not Husbands—They’re Just Male Spouses Let’s talk like men. You think you’re a husband because you paid bride price? Because you signed a certificate? Because you show up to bed every night? You’re not a husband. You’re a male spouse. There’s a difference. 1. A Husband Is Already Dead Dead to pettiness. Dead to impulse. Dea...

A word worth sharing, given from a woman's perspective. Wisdom and insight, and undoubtedly experience speaking here... A healed man won't chase you, he'll pursue you, and there's a difference. He knows his worth and understands yours. His pursuit is respectful and intentional, filled with genuine care and affection. He approaches relationships with clarity and purpose, never with desperation or insecurity. A healed man communicates openly and honestly. He values transparency and believes in the power of honest conversations. His words are thoughtful and considerate, aimed at fostering mutual understanding and trust. He listens as much as he speaks, ensuring that both voices are heard and valued. A healed man embraces his past but doesn't let it define him. He has faced his wounds and learned from them, emerging stronger and wiser. His experiences have shaped him, but they do not control him. He moves forward with a sense of peace and acceptance, ready to build a fu...

This collection gives just a portion of another passion of my heart: the dire need for men to come to places of accountability and humbleness before themselves and God, strengthening the backbone we were meant to have to stand as servant-leaders for society, family, women and children, and most importantly (in my opinion at least), the one princess of their heart. Eagles Point | A safe place of rest...

…just to get it off my chest, once again, because I can, I suppose… I’m continually grieved at the dearth of consecration and fidelity that has surfaced all around me time and time and time again over the last several months. While I’m shaking my head at one thing and putting my heart back together from another, I don’t have time to process as yet further stories of heartbreak come my way. I just want to fix everyone myself…cover those who were violated, and set quite a few men straight my own way. That’s in part why I must submit daily to God. But at least can I say a couple things that need to be said? Men?… Your spouse, your significant, your future spouse is a princess. Your princess. She is not a queen, we don’t bow to other than God. We are in fact made to be coequal with our partners. But that means complete dignity, respect, and consecration. The fact your body is to be hers is something that is so important for her, and to her…especially when you abide by the fact ...